Attractive women dating ugly men
She takes great pleasure in adorning herself and amplifying her internal beauty via her external beauty.
You don't need to be a supermodel to enjoy this; you simply need to know that you are looking your current best.
If your "great" isn't good enough for him, your "best" probably won't be either.
And even if it were, you would have to be completely focused on your appearance in order to barely keep him interested, making your life a living hell.) 2.
And not just Japanese folks either; I mean foreigners. Oh now somebody else starts rambling about traditional homes being all infused with zen beauty, and rock gardens, and koi fish.
Like if I said, “Japanese architecture is stunning,” somebody’d stand up and complain that the cities are just jumbled amalgamations of aging concrete projects.
He is going to see you without makeup eventually, so don't make inordinate attempts to avoid being seen bare-faced after the first few dates.
It is an expression of intimacy - and her confidence - that she can be herself in my presence, and this is worth something.
While you could probably sympathize with your man's desire to relax in this regard, and might even be OK with him showing his weaknesses to you from time to time (see #7 below), you'd prefer to always have him being his strongest, and you wouldn't be any less turned off by his weakness just because time had elapsed in the relationship. He hates a women whose life is dictated by her appearance. Confidence is a character trait that both sexes find incredibly attractive in the other (even if women value it more than men) because confidence is rooted in a healthy self-perception and acknowledgement of one's own self-worth - which all diligent and contentious people have. Remember that men are primarily stimulated visually.
The negative effect of being unwilling to do activities that would require you to not wear makeup (camping, surfing, etc.) by far outweighs the advantage you gain by always being seen at your best - especially considering points #2 and #8. The attractiveness of your confidence is much more important than whatever advantage you sacrifice by occasionally being seen without makeup. While there is a certain attraction to being naked with a woman who bares her whole self to you, most of the time a man wants to be sleeping with the hottest woman he can.
Don't use this as an excuse to ignore point #3, but allow it to help you if you struggle with point #5. He isn't expecting you to be as hot without it as you are with it.
Men understand that you aren't going to be as beautiful without your makeup on and hair done.