Dating widows only
There Are Still Visible Shrines to the Late Wife When a wife dies, she becomes immortalized.
If you look, act, think, or have other similarities to the late wife, be very concerned – particularly if the widower’s wife is recently deceased.
Often the person is immortalized through online memorial sites, photos, or even literal shrines to that person.
If a widower is truly making room in his heart for you, the shrines, photographs, and other ways of commemorating the dead will slowly disappear. If the shrines remain, it’s time to find someone else who doesn't mete out his love to dead idols.
Unless you’re willing to become the late wife and do things exactly like she did them, don’t waste your time.
Bail out while you still have some sense of identity left.