Al anon when dating recovered alcoholic
The loss of loved one is a universal experience, but everyone’s grieving process is unique and there is not a one-size-fits-all approach.
That said, many people find bereavement groups to be very healing experiences.
The reason you don’t see it in sitcoms is that it’s not funny, it’s sad. Now I totally get that women gain weight when they have kids and for many its tough to take off.
It can be done though, and many, many women get back to within sight at least of their pre-baby weight.
Sometimes you have a post you have no idea where it’s going when you start. I’m guessing it’s a long road to nowhere..nowhere but fat bashing that is. It makes for stable relationships when you’re generally close in body rank.
Kind regards, Sarah Sarah Noel, MS, LMHC is a licensed psychotherapist living and working in Brooklyn, New York.
Her boss, this sow’s husband, was a lean mean triathlete type and they always looked odd together.
However, despite men having less attraction for their fat wives, most won’t leave.
I ache for my husband every day, and I still reach for him at night, as I used to do when I would check on him. It is just too much to try to wrap your head around until it happens. You commented that all you have done is sleep and cry since your husband’s passing, but you followed this up by saying, “at least, that is how it seems.” In reading your follow-up comment, I wondered if, as you were writing this, you realized that you actually have engaged in some other activities in the months since your husband’s death.
I talk to him sometimes, all alone, but obviously I don't hear anything back. If this is true, it might be useful to take a look at what those things are and consider what has felt best.